WHO AM I?...

i guess this is the most fundamental question that most of us fumble with in life, funny thing is that some of us die without having an answer to that question or worse still having a wrong answer to that question.there is no right answer to this question but there is a wrong answer to it.i don't know what you will tell me if asked you who you are. you might tell me you are just the girl next door, the student, the class geek,a mother of two, a CEO....any of those may fit.

after that question I'll ask you a second one,.. who told you who you are?you see i have a problem with life, too many of us have lived to define ourselves through the words of someone else,what they say, what they think, what they expect...its all about 'they'.that is a load of sheer nonsense to me because it just gives us one miserable day after another.so long as you answer the question of 'who am i?' with the definition of someone else, you will never live to discover yourself, to learn the intricate pattern of you being, to explore your true and ultimate self.

it doesn't matter if you have been so far defined by other people, you can start over now. i guarantee you it will be hard to let go of the thoughts of others and their expectations but its when you do your own unique thing that people begin to really enjoy who you are.trust me this is a path i have once walked, there is nothing more fulfilling than looking in the mirror and telling yourself who you are with your own words. there is nothing better than discovering you, no better feeling than living as you have decided.its no fun being in the shadow of people but its great to light a candle for yourself.

go on , look in the mirror listen to your voice.tell yourself who you are.fly with your own wings, blaze your own path and at the end of it, it will be the greatest achievement of all time.it doesnt matter what 'they' say anymore, ....its what you say now that matters....