FLYING FIRST CLASS LIFE....(Part 2)

part 2....

you see, just the way we keep looking for the missing 20% from other people that is the same way we treat our very own lives. i tend to think that in life we have 80% but we look at the missing 20% magnify it till it looks as big as the 80%. we spend much of life seeing that which we do not have, that which we cannot do, that which we cannot have or that which we cannot be.we always look at another persons life and wish we had something they have, it could be a spouse, a talent, a car or a physical feature(even the most weird things apply here)

the point is quite simple here, everyone is better than you and worse than you depends which side you want to look at it from(remember the analogy of the coin?).i'm human and believe me i also look at people and think "dang human...can you get more lucky than that?" but then i stop and think again "he/she is probably thinking the same exact thing about something i have that they dont have..." that right there is a consoling thought.

i have come to learn a lesson in life,that life is too damn good to waste thinking about all other negative things. we all have a choice whether to celebrate the 80% we do have or keep chasing the elusive 20% we do not have and probabaly never will have.we can live in the fantasy of thinking what life would be like if we had the 20% or choose to live up the fantastic reality of the 80% we do have.

i cheat you not life is so much better celebrating the 80% we have.the more we see it the more we appreciate it and realise just how much we have.when we look at the 80% we start living a first class life of our own, we start being a first version of ourselves, we look at ourselves with larger eyes than before. when we concentrate on the 20% we will never be as good as 'they' are and we will remain encapsulated in the mediocre thinking of being second to others.

i choose to see what i have as the absolute first rate of its version, the very best life has got to offer.who i am is also an obvious first class version and those around me are the same.whats the point of feeling second to someone when they are second to you in another way?why waste precious life counting misery coins when i can count heavy dollars?

be the best, feel the best, live the best.see yourself and what you have because its truly first class!!!


PS:-if anyone thinks your nuts for loving the 80% you have...it does not matter they will probably waste their time thinking that for a very long time...